New Year’s Resolutions

I like to keep these simple… having too many goals just lessens the focus, and if you’re like me, focus is the only way to get anything accomplished.

so here goes…

1.  blog more often.  (I like WordPress’s idea of a posting each day or each week)  I posted 34 times in 2010, so I’ll double that… at least 68 in 2011.

2.  rock Restart Your Heart and help people open their hearts and lives to love again.  for me, that’s conducting awesome heart-to-heart interviews, teaching on relevant and insightful topics, and coaching rockstar clients.

3.  read 36+ books

4.  meditate daily (30-60 minutes)

5.  finish my book (it’s about 2/3 of the way there) and begin the agent/editor/publishing process

6.  workout or yoga 5 days per week

now I realize the dilemma with posting resolutions online is that there is a higher degree of accountability — all the more reason to accomplish these and more, and have the best year yet.

wishing you the most extraordinary year, full of love and magic!

Wise Words by Will Smith

This is a great compilation of interviews with Will Smith.  I didn’t know much about his philosophy apart from a few soundbites I’d heard around the time The Pursuit of Happyness came out, but check out what he’s got to say.  His passion and his message provide a crucial voice for today’s world, where people often believe they are the victim of circumstances outside of their control (the economy, the government, et cetera).  Will offers a different, and refreshing, perspective:

Greatness exists in all of us.

Lay one brick at a time.

Focus on making a difference.

Represent an idea.

You have to believe.

Nothing is unrealistic.

Be willing to die for the Truth.

Protect your dream.

And one of my favorite quotes: “Being realistic is the most commonly traveled road to mediocrity.”

Trouble Staying Focused?

Ok, so if you happen to read this blog occasionally, or if we’re connected on Twitter or Facebook, you probably know that I talk about procrastination a lot.  Here’s a technique I use when I need to center and focus my thoughts:

Alternate Nostril Breathing

Sounds complicated right? In reality, it’s an easy way to become more focused and alert, also to relieve stress or anxiety.

I first learned about alternate nostril breathing from a Conscious Breathing course I took. A year or so later, I came across it again in my yoga practice, this time called Nadi Shodhana.

Gay Hendricks, author of the book Conscious Breathing, points out that “the left side of the nose is connected to the right side of the brain, and vice versa. Breathing alternately through each nostril causes a shift from one hemisphere of the brain to the other.” This can create balance and quickly change your state of consciousness.

Alternate nostril breathing is performed by closing off one nostril at a time. You’ll want to begin on the out-breath. Close off one nostril, say the left, and breathe out, then back in through the right. Then close the right nostril and breath out and back in on the left, switching nostrils after each inhalation.

Hendricks suggests using your thumb and middle finger to close off each nostril while resting your index finger on your forehead. In Nadi Shodhana, a variation on the same concept, you curl your index and middle fingers toward your palm and use your thumb and ring finger to alternately close off each nostril.

Try it for two to five minutes and notice how you feel.